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Creating Your Own Lane

Creating your own lane can be a difficult thing to do these days.  So many of us want to swerve in and out of various lanes to appear to others that we can do ALL things, but some us actually crash before reaching our destination. 

In today’s episode, I talk about the importance of seeking and identifying what your true love and passion is.  I know some believe that they are multi-talented and some are, but me personally I am starting to realize and accept that I can only work on one talent at a time.  When I was trying to have my “car aka my hand” in various lanes I was completely unorganized, very unproductive and extremely stressed.  I was stressed, because I wasn’t seeing progress and the reason I wasn’t seeing progress was because I wasn’t giving the task my full commitment and focus.  When I stopped trying to be in all 4 four lanes at once.  I saw so much progress and growth. 

 Now I am not saying that you should never switch lane and move onto bigger and better things, but I would say that you should get comfortable in your lane first then switch.  Getting comfortable means doing your research on your gift and talent, speak with experts who were once in your lane or the lane that you are thinking about moving into and practice your gifts while in your current lane before moving into the fast lane. 

Again, I am not saying that you should only utilize one of the many gifts that God has given to you, but you must be honest with yourself and really seek, listen and embrace what He wants you to focus on.  Creating a lane that you can call your own brings more joy, happiness, growth and peace than you can ever imagine. 

I hope you enjoy this episode.  The goal for this podcast is to inspire others, but the more I record its becoming my audio diary.  Talk to you in the next episode.

 

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The Sweet Scents of Sweents

On today’s episode, I had the pleasure of talking with Arden. Arden is the owner of Sweents, an all natural candle wax melt company. Arden Sweeting is a spunky eight year old who loves dancing, fishing, and being an entrepreneur. Arden enjoys school with math and science being her favorite subjects. When she was seven years old, her parents found out that one of her brothers was allergic to the candles and air fresheners that were being used in their home. With the help of her older brother, Arden used her love of math and science to research natural waxes and beneficial oils. With these natural waxes and oils Arden created candle wax melts that are melted in wax warmers and are the perfect alternative to candles.

What I loved most about her products are they are all natural, but more importantly she wanted to solve a problem within her home. Her desire to ensure that her brother would no longer get sick from the smell of regular candles, she took matters into her own hands and created an amazing product! Many people would have stopped lighting the candles and never thought twice about it, but she decided that not only would she help her own brother, she would help people all over the world.

The support she receives from her family to maintain a business and go to school is admirable! Arden is a child of God and because her faith is strong and unwavering. God has opened many doors for her. I hope you are inspired and motivated by our interview. Let it be a reminder that if you don’t see a solution to a problem you are having. You have the opportunity to create your own solution!

Thank you for listening and talk with you soon!!!

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Stop Overthinking It

What is keeping you from living your best life?  Are you thinking that every step of your process has to be in line, in order for you to start your task?  In today’s episode, I talk about how to stop overthinking things.  When it comes to overthinking I am the QUEEN.  For many years I have allowed my “planner” and “to-do” list ways keep me from moving toward my dreams.  Now don’t get my wrong.  Having a plan and being organized is ALWAYS important, but you should also be willing to learn and grow from every step that you are taking towards your goals and dreams. 

Overthinking the process not only prolongs the dreams, but a lot of times it can keep a person stagnant.  I have list after list of things that I want to do, but I thought that my office needed to look a certain way, my voice edits for my podcast episodes needed to be perfect, and so on.  It wasn’t until late December that I realized that it’s either now or never.  I have made huge investments in P.U.R.E. Girls and I refuse to stay at this current level for another year.  It’s never going to be the right time and I won’t be able to avoid the mistakes that will occur.  Everything that I do from this day forward is solely based off of faith, belief and trust in God and myself.  When God gives us an idea for a project, a business, a career.  We aren’t suppose to just dwell on the idea, we must take action towards it.  You must do the research, talk to experts in those fields, watch tutorials, read the books and remain prayerful.  God sees into our hearts and knows all of our desires and dreams.  If they fall into place with his plan then it will work together for our good.  So stop overthinking everything and go get what is yours!

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Big Ideas with Ms. Ariana Fox

Do you have a BIG IDEA?? Do you have an 11 year old motivational speaker as a friend? If the answer is no, then allow me to introduce to you Ms. Ariana Fox. Ms. Fox is a 11 year old motivational speaker and entrepreneur. She is our special guest on this week’s podcast. From the beginning to the end of our interview she will give you all kinds of positive and bold vibes.

During the interview, we discuss how she began her journey as a motivational speaker and what were some of the obstacles that she has faced in the past and present. We often think we need to be a certain age for our “BIG IDEA” to come true, but after listening to this episode I hope you are inspired to get working on your “BIG IDEA”!!! When God gives you a vision it is important to act upon it sooner than later. Now of course, don’t drop out of school to pursue your “BIG IDEA”, but you can begin to lay a great foundation now.

I hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned we have some amazing guests coming up!!

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Living My Best Life

Can you honestly say that you are living your best life at this very moment?  Are all of your dreams coming true?  Did you get accepted into top college choice?  Did you receive a new job offer?  Are you waking up every morning excited to see what God has planned for you today?  If you answered "no" to any of these questions, then this podcast is for you!

I was finally able to listen to the new Cardi B album and I am honestly enjoying it.  What I enjoy most about her music is the honesty, passion and rawness that she brings to each song.  I heard the song "Living My Best Life" back in May, but didn't pay much attention to the words (I was just happy to be vibin with my sisters that weekend lol.)  A few weeks have passed since hearing it, but I recently played the song this week and it is now in daily routine in my car!!  

During this episode, I discuss a few of the rap lines that stood out most to me.  While listening to the song I, of course, started to reflect on my life.  Am I really living my best life?  My version of living my best life use to consist of driving a dope car, carrying a Chanel bag, shopping every weekend, eating out almost every night and working a high paying job.  

Well let me bring you into my reality.  I drive a Honda Accord (she's cute, but she's no Benz), no Chanel bag, no shopping for me personally in almost a year(I shop for my children all the time), I can count on one hand how many times I have ate out this week, and my job is great, but it's not much left over once I pay my bills and take care of my kids and house.  

So does this mean I am not living my best life?  No it doesn't.  I realized that I am working long and hard to achieving and receiving those things, but living my best life involves seeing my kids smile, having them dressed nice when we go places, and being a responsible adult and paying my bills on time, traveling with my husband, and spending time with my family. 

I encourage to look around and find the small things that make living your best life your current reality.  Always remember to pray daily and believe that all your desires shall be added unto you.  I am excited to see your version of living your best life!  

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Choose Happiness

Do you want to be happy?  Do you know what it feels like to be happy?  Do you rely on others to make you happy? Or do you know how to make yourself happy?  

In this week's episode, I talk to you about the importance of ALWAYS choosing happiness.  In lieu of the two recent celebrity deaths I felt the need to speak about what being happiness can bring to your life.  I know trials, issues, frustrations, sadness, emptiness are things that you possibly face everyday.  But what you need to understand is that the issues, trials etc. are not meant to break you.  They are put there to help you realize your strengths.  

You might get tired, but during the episode I share with you how to find your "happy place".  I encourage you to take notes using our P.U.R.E. Moments journal.  This episode will have you thinking and wondering how to make your outlook on life much better.  Life is not easy, but it's definitely worth the ride.  

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